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The world is in chaos. People are angry, hurting and in pain. Shows like "The Walking Dead" have showed us a glimpse of a very real future, not of a possible zombie apocalypse but of us losing our very humanity.
Social media, is much more powerful and dangerous that we could ever have imagined. People think that they are safe to say, post and do whatever they want with no filter and no consequences. However, people get hurt and even die, over Facebook, Twitter and Instagram comments and posts. Watch shows like " The Internet Ruined My Life" or "Web Of Lies". You think you know people. You think that most people might be good, honest, loving, caring people but you'd be dead wrong! Sadly, we have already lost our humanity. We've lost our ability to communicate. We are nasty, rude, immature and irresponsible. We say things to people online, that we would not dare say to someone's face. We comment on peoples posts, not thinking or caring how it might make them feel. We are condescending, hurtful and insulting to others that we might be jealous of. We take out our own frustrations and anger on total strangers, because we think it makes us feel better to make others feel bad. We fear what we do not like or understand. We force our beliefs and values on others and get angry if they do not accept or agree with us. We threaten, harass and troll friends, enemies and complete strangers. We take everything incredibly personally and we strike back, like a deadly snake, venom dripping, and yet we recoil in fear and surprise when they strike back?
I have fallen victim to Internet trolls and freaks, who like to instigate, stir up trouble and bully. I'm embarrassed to say, that I have first hand experience at attacking back like a angry wounded animal. If you post or comment, do not be surprised that people might attack you or hurt your feelings. People do not care who you are or how you feel. They don't care if you are suffering from an illness, you just lost your job, girlfriend, boyfriend, husband or wife. They don't care if you have a sick child, parent or spouse or don't know where your next rent or meal is going to come from. Humans are derived directly from animals. We all have that animalistic instinct to protect ourselves and our territory. Grown men and women say and do the nastiest things to complete strangers online, without any sense of responsibility or accountability. No wonder so many people despise people, because a lot of people these days are deplorable. Just understand, that no one is safe from persecution, bigotry, oppression, ridicule, hated, racism, rejection and violence. It's how we choose to react that is the key. Trust me, you WILL be tempted to defend your point, fight back and spend hours arguing with a mentally insane and possibly psychotic stranger. But why? Why should you care or even waste your time? It's just not worth it. We are either part of the problem or part of the solution. Only you can make that choice. The next time some complete f@#ktard tries to bait or troll you by saying something nasty or posting something offensive and hurtful. Just ask yourself "is it worth it?". The answer will always be NO! Don't comment, fight or get involved. You cannot reason with crazy. You will never win, so why even try? A good, healthy debate can be both mentally stimulating and rewarding, yet there is a difference between having tea with a madman and a debate with your intellectual equal.
I get so angry with myself when I break my own rules. DO NOT respond to trolls, freaks or people who disrespect you or try to bait you..PERIOD!
Lately, I have gotten personally attacked by total strangers over my posts, comments, music, musical, tv and movie tastes and judged on artwork I did when I was just a child. People send guided missiles with the intent to hurt you just to make themselves feel better. DO NOT fall for it or be drawn in. It's just not worth it. You do not have to "lighten up" when someone attacks you personally. That is just their immature and twisted way of taking any responsibility or accountability off of them for their negative comments or actions. The best way, is no way at all. Meaning. DO NOT respond to ass@#les! It will save you lots of time, energy and problems. People feel the need to weigh in on every little post. They always have to have the last word. They are always right and never wrong. They are born bullies. They love to annoy, hurt and terrorize. They are sick, sad and disturbed. You will never change them nor should you care. People are easily offended and intimidated. The way I usually post or comment is with total confidence and honesty. I am very secure in myself, my values, morals, thoughts and feelings. I treat people the way I would want to be treated with care and respect. I am human, I mess up too occasionally but I try to remember that people are people. I do not have to like them, know them or talk to them. If people like or appreciate my posts or comments, great. I am grateful and thankful to them. If people want to insult me and try to start a fight or an argument with me, I just simply walk away.
Ain't nobody got time for dat!
Love yourself, love others who are good to you. Forget the people who disrespect and hurt you. Spread love, not anger and hate. It's simple, just do it!
To quote Depeche Mode, get the balance right "be responsible, respectable, stable but gullible,concerned and caring, help the helpless
But always remain ultimately selfish".
Respect yourself and others. Take care of you, mind your own business, don't worry about what others are doing, just do your own thang. One simple rule to get along and play nice with others "DON'T BE AN ASS@#LE!
The world is in chaos. People are angry, hurting and in pain. Shows like "The Walking Dead" have showed us a glimpse of a very real future, not of a possible zombie apocalypse but of us losing our very humanity.
Social media, is much more powerful and dangerous that we could ever have imagined. People think that they are safe to say, post and do whatever they want with no filter and no consequences. However, people get hurt and even die, over Facebook, Twitter and Instagram comments and posts. Watch shows like " The Internet Ruined My Life" or "Web Of Lies". You think you know people. You think that most people might be good, honest, loving, caring people but you'd be dead wrong! Sadly, we have already lost our humanity. We've lost our ability to communicate. We are nasty, rude, immature and irresponsible. We say things to people online, that we would not dare say to someone's face. We comment on peoples posts, not thinking or caring how it might make them feel. We are condescending, hurtful and insulting to others that we might be jealous of. We take out our own frustrations and anger on total strangers, because we think it makes us feel better to make others feel bad. We fear what we do not like or understand. We force our beliefs and values on others and get angry if they do not accept or agree with us. We threaten, harass and troll friends, enemies and complete strangers. We take everything incredibly personally and we strike back, like a deadly snake, venom dripping, and yet we recoil in fear and surprise when they strike back?
I have fallen victim to Internet trolls and freaks, who like to instigate, stir up trouble and bully. I'm embarrassed to say, that I have first hand experience at attacking back like a angry wounded animal. If you post or comment, do not be surprised that people might attack you or hurt your feelings. People do not care who you are or how you feel. They don't care if you are suffering from an illness, you just lost your job, girlfriend, boyfriend, husband or wife. They don't care if you have a sick child, parent or spouse or don't know where your next rent or meal is going to come from. Humans are derived directly from animals. We all have that animalistic instinct to protect ourselves and our territory. Grown men and women say and do the nastiest things to complete strangers online, without any sense of responsibility or accountability. No wonder so many people despise people, because a lot of people these days are deplorable. Just understand, that no one is safe from persecution, bigotry, oppression, ridicule, hated, racism, rejection and violence. It's how we choose to react that is the key. Trust me, you WILL be tempted to defend your point, fight back and spend hours arguing with a mentally insane and possibly psychotic stranger. But why? Why should you care or even waste your time? It's just not worth it. We are either part of the problem or part of the solution. Only you can make that choice. The next time some complete f@#ktard tries to bait or troll you by saying something nasty or posting something offensive and hurtful. Just ask yourself "is it worth it?". The answer will always be NO! Don't comment, fight or get involved. You cannot reason with crazy. You will never win, so why even try? A good, healthy debate can be both mentally stimulating and rewarding, yet there is a difference between having tea with a madman and a debate with your intellectual equal.
I get so angry with myself when I break my own rules. DO NOT respond to trolls, freaks or people who disrespect you or try to bait you..PERIOD!
Lately, I have gotten personally attacked by total strangers over my posts, comments, music, musical, tv and movie tastes and judged on artwork I did when I was just a child. People send guided missiles with the intent to hurt you just to make themselves feel better. DO NOT fall for it or be drawn in. It's just not worth it. You do not have to "lighten up" when someone attacks you personally. That is just their immature and twisted way of taking any responsibility or accountability off of them for their negative comments or actions. The best way, is no way at all. Meaning. DO NOT respond to ass@#les! It will save you lots of time, energy and problems. People feel the need to weigh in on every little post. They always have to have the last word. They are always right and never wrong. They are born bullies. They love to annoy, hurt and terrorize. They are sick, sad and disturbed. You will never change them nor should you care. People are easily offended and intimidated. The way I usually post or comment is with total confidence and honesty. I am very secure in myself, my values, morals, thoughts and feelings. I treat people the way I would want to be treated with care and respect. I am human, I mess up too occasionally but I try to remember that people are people. I do not have to like them, know them or talk to them. If people like or appreciate my posts or comments, great. I am grateful and thankful to them. If people want to insult me and try to start a fight or an argument with me, I just simply walk away.
Ain't nobody got time for dat!
Love yourself, love others who are good to you. Forget the people who disrespect and hurt you. Spread love, not anger and hate. It's simple, just do it!
To quote Depeche Mode, get the balance right "be responsible, respectable, stable but gullible,concerned and caring, help the helpless
But always remain ultimately selfish".
Respect yourself and others. Take care of you, mind your own business, don't worry about what others are doing, just do your own thang. One simple rule to get along and play nice with others "DON'T BE AN ASS@#LE!
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